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They were still in contact; he would still text her messages full of sexual innuendos.
But sometimes he didn’t text for days at a time, or would just drop off mid-convo when she asked him about something non sex-related. She slept with him before they developed any sort of a real connection.
Many years ago, a guy friend said something that completely changed the way I viewed sex and relationships.
He said: “Before a girl sleeps with a guy, she has all the power.
She decided she was gonna sleep with him after their third date and I didn’t really offer much in the way of advice since it didn’t seem like she was interested in having a real relationship with him.
So they had a passionate night together and continued to text one another but something had shifted…
Suddenly, their relationship went from elegant Saturday night dates to random 2 am hookups. They were still in the casual getting to know one another phase.
He never texted her earlier than 11pm and while he was nice and sweet and all that when they hung out, all he wanted was to fool around (and sometimes order in food and fool around). He hadn’t shown any level of investment (I know going on three Saturday night dates in a row with a guy can feel like he’s investing, but it’s not so).
Just as there is a stigma against women who sleep with a lot of men, there is a stigma against men who are super into commitment and invest way too soon.
A close friend of mine recently met an amazing guy on an online dating site.